Making it as we go.
Here's a truth for you -- especially if you haven't hit your 40s yet, maybe not even your 30s.
The truth is this:
*Nobody* knows what the fuck they're doing.
If someone seems like they have their shit together, either they are presenting you with a completely false front, or they are in a season of The Total Occasional Fluke of Everything Apparently Going Right and Coming Together.
But what are we really doing? Nobody knows. WE'RE ALL JUST DOING WHAT WE CAN WITH THE TOOLS WE HAVE AT THE TIME.
I am turning 41 in March, and I am still making shit as I go, even more so in parenting.